About Us


We are a family of three. Mr H (Husband), myself; Louise, and Mr S (Son). Today this little family of three have been together for five years and six months. Mr H is in IT (Systems Engineer), I am a sole trader at www.bbqsauce.co.nz and Mr S is 11 years old in year 8.

We introduced Mr Teal'c (name is from Stargate) to our family a year ago, just before we got married.

We were very lucky in our pregnancy. I stopped taking the pill in November, we were married in January and pregnant pretty much at the wedding but didn't know until February.


Its quite surreal. I am 32 years old, going to be having my second child, a girl! Mr H's first child. We are very lucky. I really do feel lucky. I feel like there is more responsibility having a girl and if she is like both her mum and dad, she is going to be a strong stubborn women, haha.

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Maternity Leave in NZ


I have been delaying applying for my Maternity Leave because I have had my first year of business as a self employed person. My Accountant has finally done my numbers and confirmed that they are correct on my forms.

It has been a bit confusing on how it all works.

I found Citizens Advice Bureau really helpful and they have an online chat option as well which is great since I am more a tech person then a calling/talking person.

Also note that you have to POST the forms, that's right POST them, so add like 2-3 for form processing, omg!!!

SEE FORM HERE TO FILL IN

Qualifying for paid parental leave:

Casual and seasonal employees employees with more than one employer, and people who have recently changed jobs.

Applying for paid parental leave:

You can apply for PPL: before your baby's birth after your baby has been born (up until the first birthday) when the child has come into your care or at any time up until the child has been in your care for 12 months.

You must apply before you return to work for any employer or self-employment (whichever is earlier). Your start date can't be later than your baby's date of birth or expected due date, or the date the child arrives in your care.

If you apply after this date, or after the 18 weeks have finished, we'll back-pay your entitlement as a lump sum.


You'll need to complete a Paid parental leave (PPL) application (IR880) form and include: a declaration from your employer, chartered accountant or tax advisor, or a statutory declaration witnessed by a Justice of the Peace (or other person authorised to witness statutory declarations).

You'll also need to provide evidence from your lead maternity carer of your expected due date, or evidence that you are the primary carer of a child under six. Back to top Paid parental leave payments

We'll pay PPL payments directly into your bank account each fortnight. The payments will be treated as income, just like your normal salary and wages or self-employed income. PPL payments have tax and student loan deductions taken out (at the rate that applies to you).

Once we've received and processed your application we'll send your payment advice letter with: your weekly entitlement amount (note that while this entitlement is weekly it's paid fortnightly) the amount of your regular fortnightly payment (the first and last payments may be different to your regular fortnightly amounts depending on your PPL start date) the dates when all your payments will be received.

If you receive PPL payments and another source of income at the same time

If you're also receiving another source of income (such as annual leave payments or an employer top-up) you'll need to use a secondary tax code for the lower payment amount. This will help you avoid a tax bill at the end of the year. Find out more about secondary tax codes - you can also use the tax code decision tree on this page to choose the right tax code for your situation.

 If you're an employee PPL payments equal your normal pay up to a current maximum of

$538.55 a week before tax.


You'll receive the average of your highest 26 of the last 52 weeks of earnings up to the date the child arrives in your care.

If you're self-employed PPL payments equal your average weekly earnings up to a current maximum of

$538.55 a week before tax.


The minimum payment is $157.50 each week before tax.

If you earn less than this, or make a loss, this is what you'll receive.

It's equivalent to 10 hours each week at the current minimum wage rate.

How long you can receive payments for?

You can receive PPL payments for a maximum of 18 weeks if your baby is expected, born or a child under the age of 6 comes into your care on or after 1 April 2016.

If your baby is due or is born on or after 1 June 2017

You may use paid leave entitlements (eg annual leave) before starting your paid parental leave. In this situation you can start your paid parental leave from the day after your paid leave ends, even if it is later than the child’s expected delivery date or date of birth, or the date they come into your care.

If you won’t be using paid leave entitlements, your start date cannot be later than your expected delivery date or child’s date of birth, or the day you become the primary carer of the child.

If your baby is due on or after 1 April 2016 and is born prematurely

If your baby is due on or after 1 April 2016 and is born prematurely (before the 37th week of pregnancy) you'll qualify for additional baby payments. These payments cover the time between your baby's date of birth up to the end of the 36th week. Your regular PPL payments will start after this.

You can also claim these payments if you're not the birth mother but you have primary care of the baby during the preterm period.

 From 1 June 2017, if your baby is born prematurely and you return to work after you start getting a preterm baby payment or parental leave payment, you can still get your parental leave payments when you go back on parental leave, as long as it’s no later than the original expected date of birth, had the baby not been born prematurely.

Transferring your paid parental leave to your spouse or partner

You can transfer your PPL to your spouse or partner, as long as they also qualify for PPL from their employer (s) or self-employment. You can elect which one of you will receive PPL if you and your spouse or partner: are becoming joint primary carers of a child under six, and you both qualify for PPL from your employer(s) or self-employment. You can still transfer part of your entitlement once you've elected which one of you will claim PPL. You'll need to complete a Paid parental leave (PPL) transfer (IR881) form.

LINK TO IRD PAGE

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39 weeks PHOTO




Finally we have reached 39 weeks!!

Only twos weeks to go until babies due date which is the 12th October 2017. I had such a strong feeling that she was going to come early and I am just not sure anymore.

I have experience so many braxton hicks contractions that you do think you are going into early labour even though in the back of your mind you know that you aren't.

Lately I have had a few pains in my lower pelvic area, stingy as well as pains pf pressure. All are positive signs that baby is getting ready.

I have had two gestational diabetes tests, the first one was a high result and the second one was clear! Great! The reason for the tests is because baby is quite big, so we also had a couple of growth scans.

30th August 2017:
Baby was weighing at an estimated 6lb 7oz, the equivalent of 36 weeks and 5 days


18th September 2017:
Baby was weighing at an estimated 7lb 14oz, the equivalent of 38 weeks and 5 days

That is a pound every two weeks. Today baby should be weighting approx 8 pounds.

Our midwife sent a referral to the hospital as baby is measuring in the 98% percentile and it doesn't seem to be coming down, which just means that baby is very big.

Our appointments are on Tuesday next week, another five days away.

I am a little bit worried, I suppose that is normal. I am worried about the pain, worried about worst case etc etc, just have to force the thoughts out of my mind and do something else!

Other scan photos:







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37 weeks VIDEO


37 weeks and baby is a kicker! She moves so much as if she is trying to get herself out! Excuse my noisy dog in the background he seems to be obsessed with the neighbour at the moment!


At week 37 weeks:

• 18.9 inches (48cm); 6.17 pounds (2.8kg)
• Baby᾿s practicing some cool, new skills: inhaling, exhaling, sucking, gripping and blinking.
• Baby᾿s getting the first sticky poop (called meconium) ready for his or her first diaper.
• Baby᾿sis still gaining weight
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Braxton Hicks



I get these a lot and I thought it was normal, until a friend of mine had her first baby and mentioned that she doesn't get any at all! The amount of Googling that you do will never satisfy you, well in my case anyway. That is something that is quite hard with pregnancy; there is no one answer to anything, no one way, no same stories. Frustrating and wonderful at the same time.

The term originated in 1872 when an English doctor named John Braxton Hicks described the contractions that occur before real labor.

Braxton Hicks are described as:

  • Unpredictable
  • Non-rhythmic
  • More uncomfortable than painful (although for some women Braxton Hicks can feel painful)
  • They do not increase in intensity or frequency
  • They taper off and then disappear altogether
  • They usually last about 15 to 30 seconds (but sometimes as long as two minutes), and they should subside when you change positions.
  • Usually happen no more than once or twice an hour, a few times a day.
  • Often stop if you change activity.

What are triggers of Braxton Hicks:

  • When mother or the baby are very active 
  • If someone touches the mother’s belly 
  • When the bladder is full 
  • After sex 
  • Dehydration
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